Police Arresting People on Grindr Is Worse than Stonewall Raids
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Imagine if you can a new gay bar opened today that was part of national chain with out posts in every town in America. Imagine that this same bar was primarily used as sex club. A sex club with no doorman or admission. A sex club where a 13 year-old could walk in and order a drink, buy drugs, and have sex with adults. Imagine that this same low security sex club was a popular hang out of criminals, primarily sexual predators, and killers who hate gay people.
Thanks to the so-called dating app Grindr, we don’t have to imagine this nightmare, it has been with us for 12 years and in that span of time, it has completely dominated the social lives and imagination of most gay men, indeed the the primary vector of how we meet. It’s eviscerated the existence of gay bars outside of most urban areas and in most of the country, it’s the only game in town. Well then ipso facto that would make it the virtual location of the gay community. Why wouldn’t we question law enforcement to turn it into a police state, ket alone allow it?
Last Friday, law enforcement officials in Polk County, Florida proudly announced the bounty of a six-month sting operation they’d waged using Grindr and to a lesser extent Scruff cause they’d done busted a cartel of “dope” dealers that were running their businesses via the apps.
Polk county is in central Florida. Its largest city is Lakeland. It’s about halfway between Ft. Lauderdale and Orlando which is to say nowhere and everywhere as far as Florida is concerned.
The name of the operation was called “Swipe Left for Meth” and you could almost hear the beat they allowed for the press conference attendees to appreciate the cleverness of the appellation. I am assuming because on the dating apps you swipe left to… do nothing. The dating app using that feature is the primarily straight one: Tinder.
According to the Daily News: “Swipe Left for Meth,” focused on the sale and/or possession of illegal narcotics on three dating mobile apps that are popular among gay and bisexual men. The investigation began in July 2021 when detectives received a tip indicating that people were openly selling drugs on the well-known app Grindr.
Further investigation led police to target two other apps that also cater to men who have sex with men: Scruff and Taimi. PCSO detectives created fake profiles within the apps, seeking to establish contact with people who might be selling any illegal substances. They found that it was “relatively easy to strike up conversations with those who were selling methamphetamine, cocaine, Ecstasy, LSD, Fentanyl, and marijuana in Polk County,” authorities said in a news release. “It was clear during the conversations and ensuing undercover drug buys that the suspects’ primary purposes for being on the dating app were to sell drugs — not to find a date.”
During a press conference Thursday, Sheriff Grady Judd said that detectives filed 159 felony and 72 misdemeanor charges. “We discovered exactly what we were told: that they were selling dope,” he said. “A lot of dope. A lot of street dope on these dating apps.”
This is something we are seeing more and more of in Polk County — suspects who are using dating apps to sell illegal narcotics,” Judd said.
“Suspects are getting more creative, but so are our detectives. We’re working with these mobile app companies to raise awareness, and asking for their cooperation during our investigations,” he added.
During the investigation, detectives seized 14 firearms, around 280 grams of methamphetamine, 3 grams of cocaine, 130 pills of Ecstasy (MDMA), approximately 1.5 grams of Fentanyl/heroin, 1 gram of LSD, around 28 grams of psychedelic mushrooms, as well as 645 grams of marijuana.
Besides the 60 arrests, authorities also obtained warrants for eight people who are currently at large.
This was a marvelous piece of detective work I am sure like all things the police do, was carried out in a logical and fair way.
But where does the policing end and the dating begin?
And would any other community have allowed this? Say it was an app that only catered to African Americans?
The decision to hand the car keys to the cops for an app that ostensibly services and fosters relationships for a community that has been historically discriminated by law enforcement it is the vector for thousands of hate crimes, murders, sexual assault, rapes, drugs, appears awfully cavalier Attacks based on sexual orientation represented 16.8 percent of all hate crimes in 2019, the last year statistics were available from the FBI’s Uniform Crime Report. That represents the third largest category after race and religion.
The specific number of these crimes committed using the app is difficult to come by and as far as I know there has been no actual comprehensive survey. In 2017 however, Global Dating Insights, a B2B resource based in the United Kingdom said: The number of crimes where dating apps were mentioned in the police report has risen by 700% over the last two years. Although the figures do suggest that dating apps are being used by criminals more often to commit crimes, the increased acceptance and widespread use of dating apps could also account for some of the reported increase, as the figures include every time Grindr were simply mentioned in a police report.
A cursory viewing of Grindr’s murder sizzle reel is horrific and the scope may not be known for years. According to Quartz,Grindr saw the emergence of “a new type of sexual offender. Usually a man, he’s less likely than other sexual offenders to have committed any kind of crime before, but instead exploits the “ease of access and arm-chair approach” to meeting people that dating sites enable. Grindr in particular is tight lipped and the most egregious when it comes to protecting users. And that’s just for adult users. It’s particularly harmful to children.
Safer Kid: Sexual energy can be hard to manage, especially at a young age, and so you can imagine how a gay child in his early teens might get aroused seeing photos like these and want to try to talk to one of these guys (or more). Especially in early teens, where kids want to be treated like adults and don’t know that a few clicks can create really bad outcomes for them.
So, if the gay child in his early teens wants to, after getting aroused, try to talk to these guys, he has to “register,” which basically involves filling out four fields on one form. “If he says he is 13, he is told that he cannot use the app. But then he can immediately change his age to 18, and voila, he’s an adult and can freely hookup with men on Grindr. Grindr was actually sued by a user who was arrested after he had sex with a minor he met on the app. He said he relied on Grindr to verify the victim’s age. A court ruled that Grindr was not responsible. And so, they have zero incentive to add any more roadblocks here. In fact, it would be bad for their business if they did.
Go to Google News and look up ‘Grindr child sexual assault’ and ‘Grindr child rape’ and quickly found articles about 25 different criminal cases (not counting duplicates) in 2015 alone. They’re documented here.
The stories are out of control. In one, a police officer stumbles across an adult and a minor in a parking lot. In another, four separate men had sex with the same 13-year-old. And a different 13-year-old let a man into a hotel room he was sharing with his parents and had sex with him in the bathroom while his parents slept. In August, a single mom went to work and her 13-year-old son went on Scruff (a Grindr competitor with a similar sign up experience) and invited a man over and had sex with him. Afterwards, the teen discovered the man was HIV positive. And then he told his mom what happened.
Grindr (and its competitors) are members of a community that fights for civil rights. I don’t know them, and I’ve never spoken to them. When I talk to people, it’s usually the people on the ICAC Task Force investigating the crimes and prosecuting people. But I think its time that Grindr’s community, and parents and legislators, stand up and look at the sign up processes being used in these apps. And while I’m sure that Grindr has a PR crisis strategy in place for if anyone ever looks to closely at this, I am hoping people will be able to look past it and focus on the numbers. It’s horrifying. And it’s wrong. These are the children in their own community struggling with coming of age. If anyone should be sensitive to them, it should be the people who are making these products.
Little has changed since. And Grindr ‘s impact on the gay community has been profound. It has in fact shaped the way an entire generation dates. That coupled with the little regard it has for safety or to verify its users has normalized predatory dating in the community. It’s more important than ever that web galvanize to destroy it rather than allow it determine our future.
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