Who’s a Good Boy? And Other Things Gay Guys Say During Sex
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How y’all feel about dirty talk during sex?
Guys in the subReddit Ask Gay Men discuss what they like and what they don’t like about talking dirty during sex.
KREE: How y’all feel about dirty talk during sex? I feel like I’m not this type of guy and I think my boyfriend likes it. When I do it I feel like I’m just playing a role, like it’s not me. I have to do a huge effort for doing it I also feel I can’t enjoy as much because I have to prepare every sentence. Once I felt so much pressure because this guy was saying a lot of stuff and I was like: Ok? And? Haha I almost said: Shut up and let me do my job here hahaa It was awkward af.
I feel like a stranger in this world. Haha
JD: I like being called a “good boy” 👀
But yeah I also cannot do it myself. I am fine with someone doing that as long as I just get to reply with “mhmm” and that’s it 🤣
Scotty: When guys say they like being called a “good boy”. Do they mean, with kind of a goofy exaggerated intonation like you’d use for a dog? Or with a deep, rough “daddy” voice? Or with a higher, gentler, soothing voice? Do different people like each of those, or is there one in particular that’s commonly liked more than the others?
It’s not something that’s in my existing vernacular and I’m not sure how to start telling a guy that he’s a good boy.
JR: I’m a huge fan of verbal tops in particular. I don’t know why but I get off so fast from a verbal top. Even the vids I watch to take care of myself are quiet verbal. It doesn’t have to be gross or demeaning dirty talk but I sure do like a verbal confident top.
KREE: Dirty talk doesn’t have to be a conversation.
Sometimes it’s descriptive (“suck that dick”), sometimes it’s instructive (“go deeper”), sometimes it’s affirmative (“that ass feels amazing”). Sometimes questions aren’t really meant to be questions (“you like that?” meaning “I want you to like that”). Sometimes I’m so in-the-moment that I’m just sort of verbalizing/saying whatever.
At the same time, being totally silent is kind of a version of “starfishing” for me. I don’t need female pornstar levels of over the top screaming and “ooo babys” but, give me some grunts, groans, something! It doesn’t need to be constant throughout sex, but some guys are just way too quiet.
JD: One time this guy and I really got into it and he started asking me who’s daddy’s little girl… I thought I misheard him but he kept going with it and finally I got into it… it was really hot.
KREE: I love a verbal guy, I feel like its one of if not the rarest but most valuable traits a guy can have. Nothing feels better than servicing a guy’s dick while the guy acts cocky with a grin, saying stuff like “yeah gooood boooi”, “ohhh yeah worship my cock. you love my cock, don’t you f-slur? yeah keep sucking, take daddy’s cock, worship it. you wanna taste my nut don’t you? you gonna swallow down daddy’s load like a good boy aren’t you, swallow every drop?”.
Where can I find guys that would talk to me like this 😖😖
JD: That’s how I feel. Dirty talk enhances the experience. Using faggot in dirty talk is so hot because it’s taboo.
KREE: I want a man to call me his dirty faggot, his cocksucker and cum dump. A guy with this kind of cocky confidence is an immediate 10/10 for me!!
My boyfriend loves it, I hate it 95% of the time. I can enjoy specific types when I’m in just the right mood, but not at the frequency he would like. It’s presented a challenge in our (otherwise very good) sex life that we are still working to navigate. I can’t get fully into what I’m doing if I’m embarrassed so the question becomes, do you want me to talk dirty or do you want me to cum? Because you can only pick one.
JD: “Why do tops always say they want to make me pregnant?”
While having sex alot of my tops always say they want to fuck me until they make me pregnant and have their babies. Im a dude i cant get pregnant though? Is it just dirty talk? Because tbh i wanna have their babies.
